You would be correct the wealth of knowledge the topic has been covered but sometimes it is easier to go straight to the point without reading for hours.
1. Use good oil, many good suggestions on this forum, I use Rotella T6 since before FCA announced the change. I change at 10K miles but I also back up with oil analysis to verify that the oil is within parameters.
2. Highway use predominate vs. grocery getter short trips. Allows motor to achieve operating temp which allows for most efficient SCR/DPF operation.
3. I have moved to fuel filter change at each oil change vs. the recommended at 4 oil changes.
Since all the tuners have been shut down except Sofa Tune King and Banks Power Derringer (CARB/EPA approved) the tune option has been thinned down. GDE has stated that they are working on a CARB/EPA approved tune to come out at a later date. The GDE tune reduces soot with fuel map without an EGR turn off or delete, but that is why they got shut down as their original tune turned off the EGR. After the AEM we suffered the worst of the poor running issues and tuned both vehicles before the EPA clamp down. Massive difference to the positive.
I have installed an external oil cooler with secondary oil filter due to the model year 2014 oil to anti freeze cooler/heater failures. It has stabilized coolant temp and oil temp.
I am not a big fan of exhaust delete as the PCM is programed for it and according to Banks Power the turbo is the limiting factor to power and torque output not the exhaust system.
The EGR cooler is under recall, my wife and I both have eco's and have received the recall which states that parts are not available and we will be notified. To the best of my research it is an updated cooler and piping.
I have a 2014 Laramie Longhorn and it converted me from Chevy, ride quality, road noise, engine, brakes, equipped with 3.92 posi differentials. The tune got rid of the dreaded "Service Electronic Throttle System" code which results in Limp Home Mode, carry a scanner that can clear codes. I have had the DEF tank replaced, warranty, the SCR/DPF replaced, recall 2014 specific. We tow a Toyhauler RV aroung 7k lbs, last year to Montana via KS, SD, and WY.
Good maintenance.
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